2.20 - Family Life & Crisis in Masculinity
Understanding the crisis in modern masculinity
The idea of a crisis in masculinity refers to the challenges men face in adapting to shifting social, economic, and personal expectations.
Indicators of the crisis
Organisations like the Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) in 2014 point out that men often find it hard to cope with pressures in their daily lives, both at home and work. This difficulty has been linked to rising male suicide rates in the UK, reaching a 15-year high.
Mac an Ghaill's theory on working-class boys
Mac an Ghaill, in his 1994 study, explores how economic shifts have created a crisis of masculinity specifically among working-class boys. He argues that these boys are caught between traditional expectations and modern realities.
Key elements of Mac an Ghaill's theory
- Socialisation into traditional roles - Working-class boys are often raised to see their future as men tied to employment and providing for a family, known as the 'breadwinner' role.
- Impact of economic changes - The decline in manufacturing jobs has led to high levels of long-term unemployment among men. New jobs in the service sector are mostly taken by women, leaving fewer opportunities for traditional male employment.
- Consequences for education and behaviour - Boys may view school and qualifications as pointless for their futures. Instead, they seek status through anti-school groups or risky behaviours like delinquency.
Diane Abbott's perspective on toxic masculinity
Diane Abbott, a Labour MP, builds on the crisis of masculinity by describing a 'Fight Club' generation of boys. This refers to a group influenced by aggressive and harmful attitudes.
Characteristics of the 'Fight Club' generation
Abbott argues that the crisis fosters violent, sexist, and homophobic attitudes among boys. Homophobic means showing hostility or discrimination towards gay and lesbian people.
Changes in the role of fathers
Since the early 1990s, sociologists have observed shifts in how fathers participate in family life. These changes reflect evolving ideas about masculinity and family responsibilities.
Evidence of changing fatherhood
- Increased involvement in birth and childcare - Fathers in the 1990s were more likely to be present at their child's birth compared to the 1960s. They also took on more childcare tasks than previous generations.
- Emotional role - Many fathers now play a bigger part in their children's emotional growth, helping with feelings and relationships rather than just providing financially.
Sociological views on fathers' identity and constraints
Sociologists like Beck and Gray examine how modern life affects fathers' sense of self and their family roles. They highlight tensions between work demands and family desires.
Beck's argument on identity in late-modern society
Beck (1992) suggests that in today's world, fathers can no longer depend on jobs for a sense of purpose. Instead, they turn to their children for identity and fulfilment.
Gray's findings on work-life balance
Gray (2006) discovered that many fathers would like to bond more with their children but are limited by long working hours.