1.28 - Relationship Between Grandparents & Grandchildren
Increased role of grandparents due to ageing
Improved life expectancy has transformed this relationship. Today, many grandparents live longer and remain healthier and more active than previous generations. As a result, grandparents now play a greater role in family life. Families benefit from their presence, and the grandparent-grandchild bond is now more qualitative, focusing on richer, more meaningful experiences.
Contributions to parenting and socialisation
Grandparents contribute significantly to parenting and socialisation. With longer, healthier lives, grandparents can actively participate in these areas, making a significant contribution to the parenting and socialisation process.
Key research findings on grandparental childcare
Several studies highlight how grandparents' increased longevity affects their role in childcare. These findings show the scale and economic impact of this involvement.
RIAS study (2012)
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Background - This research, conducted by the insurance company RIAS, examined grandparents' childcare contributions in the UK.
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Results - An estimated 5.8 million grandparents look after their grandchildren regularly, for an average of ten hours per week. This represents 47% of grandparents over 50. The total savings in childcare costs amount to nearly £11 billion per year.
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Conclusions - Grandparents' involvement provides substantial economic benefits to families by reducing childcare expenses.
Statham study (2011)
- Results - 71% of families where the mother is in work or education receive some childcare from grandparents, and 35% rely on grandparents as the main providers.
- Conclusions - Grandparents are a crucial source of support, especially for working parents, demonstrating their growing role due to longer lifespans.
These studies illustrate how ageing enables grandparents to fill gaps in childcare, benefiting both families and the economy.
The gendered nature of grandparenting
Chambers study (2013)
- Results - Grandmothers provide more informal childcare hours than grandfathers. They play a key role in supporting families, often handling daily care tasks.
- Conclusions - Grandparenting remains highly gendered, with grandmothers contributing more to childcare, which helps families.
This gendered aspect shows how ageing impacts relationships differently for grandmothers and grandfathers, with women often bearing more of the caregiving load.
Factors limiting grandparent-grandchild relationships
While ageing can strengthen grandparent-grandchild bonds, several factors can limit this involvement.
Key limitations
- Employment and social activities - Some grandparents remain in paid work or have busy social lives, leaving them with limited time to engage with grandchildren. This reduces their ability to provide regular support.
- Geographical distance - Grandparents may not live near their families, making frequent contact difficult. Travel barriers can prevent them from offering hands-on help.
- Family disruptions like divorce - Divorce can lead to grandchildren losing contact with one set of grandparents.
These factors highlight that while ageing provides opportunities for closer relationships, practical and social barriers can sometimes hinder them.